The Thoughts You’re Too Scared to Say Out Loud — Birth Trauma, Intrusive Thoughts & Postpartum Mental Health with DR. VANESSA KOMAREK (@heavy_lifting_psychologist)
In this episode, I’m joined by Dr. Vanessa Komarek, a licensed psychologist, certified personal trainer, and founder of a group practice in Upstate New York. She specializes in the evidence-based treatment of PTSD and is known for integrating mental health care with physical movement.
This episode explores how trauma can show up after birth, what PTSD symptoms may look like, and why so many moms struggle with unrealistic expectations. We also discuss the athlete identity, the myth of balance, and practical ways to move beyond all-or-nothing thinking with more compassion for yourself.
We Talk About:
-the only constant is change
-dealing with birth trauma
-symptoms of PTSD
-overcoming the all-or-nothing mindset
-dealing with intrusive thoughts
Time Stamps
0:00 introduction
6:07 talking about mental load
9:48 what got Vanessa into psychology
12:55 helping moms deal with trauma and expectations
19:55 ignoring the bad advice
23:48 the athlete identity
28:17 balance is a myth
35:58 helping moms overcome perfectionism
37:41 what she has learned in her journey
45:19 being an active mom
CONNECT WITH CARRIE
IG: https://www.instagram.com/carriepagliano/
Website: https://carriepagliano.com
CONNECT WITH VANESSA
IG: https://www.instagram.com/heavy_lifting_psychologist/
Website: www.adaptpsych.org
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