From Pain to Prolapse: How a Clinical Shift Changed the Way I Treat Pelvic Organ Prolapse

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“Is this prolapse? Why does it feel like everything is falling out?”
 If you’ve ever asked that question through tears, fear, or total overwhelm—you’re not alone. And you’re not broken.

Funny enough, this story doesn’t actually start with prolapse.
It started with pelvic pain—and a weird, brilliant shift in how we thought about it.

Years ago, we started exploring pelvic pain through the lens of the brain. At the time, this approach had only been studied in conditions like low back pain and complex regional pain syndrome… but pelvic pain? Nope. We were flying blind.

But once we included the brain in the conversation, things started to make sense. When fear entered the picture, the normal rules didn’t apply anymore. Logic took a back seat. A didn’t equal A. Oranges weren’t oranges.

We began to ask:
🧠 What information is your brain interpreting as dangerous?
🧠 What’s being flagged as safe?
Was it…

  • Sensory input? (touch, sound, vision?)
  • Thoughts and beliefs?
  • Movement?
  • Stress and trauma history?
  • Physical symptoms?

If the danger pile was bigger, the brain had a reason to protect you.
But if we could build up the safety pile, the brain could start to back off.

That framework shaped how I treated pelvic pain—and eventually, how I began to approach pelvic organ prolapse (POP).

The Fear Response That Follows a Prolapse Diagnosis

Imagine this: You’ve just delivered your baby. You feel pressure. Heaviness. Something isn’t right “down there.” Maybe you look for the first time (in the worst possible moment—swollen, stitched, and still healing). Then you hear the words:

“Your organs are falling out.”
 Cue panic. Cue Google. Cue Facebook group doom spiral.
Then your OB tells you not to run, not to lift, not to do… much of anything.

You try a Peloton ride out of desperation, only to end up with a 3-day flare so bad you can’t lift the car seat.

By the time you land in my office, your danger pile is sky-high.
Physically? You might be healing.
But neurologically? The alarms are still blaring.

What If the Problem Isn’t Just Physical?

What if your symptoms aren’t only coming from tissue damage or weakness—but from your brain doing its job trying to protect you?

This is especially true if you:

  • Had a history of high-tone pelvic floor (hello dancers and runners 👋)
  • Felt pain or tearing at delivery
  • Don’t have a clear understanding of what prolapse even is (spoiler: most of us don’t)
  • Already carry stress in your breath, shoulders, jaw, or gut

This doesn’t mean it’s “just in your head.”
It means your body is smart.
It’s protecting you.
And it might need a different strategy—not just more reps or more “squeeze your pelvic floor.”

How I Shifted My Approach: Calm > Fix

What I learned treating pelvic pain through graded motor imagery (think: small, safe exposures to build trust and tolerance) completely changed how I treated POP.

We:

  • Calm things down first
  • Stay below the “symptom ceiling”
  • Keep workouts below a 1–2/10 change in symptoms
  • Build tolerance before intensity
  • Stop obsessing over symptoms (yes, this includes Google)

We work with the nervous system—not against it.

This isn’t for every POP patient.
But if I sense a sensitized nervous system, a high-alert brain, or a pelvic floor that’s more clenched than weak?
This method works. And it works well.

What Needs to Change in the Big Picture?

We need better support. Earlier. Smarter.

👶 Can we offer early education before delivery so the prolapse diagnosis doesn’t feel like a bomb dropping?
🩺 Can we use pessaries earlier to deload tissue and calm the brain before symptoms spiral?
📊 Can we stop terrifying moms with Grade 1 prolapse diagnoses that may have existed even before pregnancy?

I don’t have the RCTs yet. I don’t have the flashy study to prove it. But I have a lot of lived experience, and conversations with seasoned clinicians seeing the exact same patterns.

So no, this isn’t just a prolapse post.
It’s a story of how we got here—from pain science, to POP symptoms, to a brain-body understanding that honors the whole person in front of me.

Let’s Talk About You

If you’ve ever been told your prolapse means “no more running,”
If you’ve ever panicked from a Facebook thread or a symptom flare,
If you’ve ever wondered if it’s all in your head (it’s not),

💬 What would’ve changed for you if someone explained this sooner?
Drop a comment or DM me—I’m here for the conversation.

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“Your organs are falling out. You should probably stop running.”
 Cool cool cool… thanks for the emotional trauma. 😑

If you’ve ever heard that from a well-meaning provider (or Google), I see you—and I was you.
The fear. The pressure. The “tampon falling out” sensation that makes you question everything.

Years ago, I evolved to treating pelvic pain through the lens of pain science: brain + body, not just muscles and joints.

Turns out… that approach works really well for some types of prolapse symptoms, too.

Because sometimes, it’s not just about tissue.
It’s about what your brain thinks is safe.

Prolapse symptoms flare? The alarms go off.
And once your brain tags something as dangerous (hello running, jumping, lifting, sneezing)…

Good luck doing it without a full-body panic.

But here’s what I’ve learned:
➡️ You don’t need to be “fixed” before you move.
➡️ You need to feel safe in your movement.
➡️ Calming the system > chasing perfection.

Yes, prolapse can be a structural thing.
But your brain plays a huge role.
And kegels alone won’t fix nervous system hypervigilance, fear of movement, or the trauma of being told “just stop running.”

We’re done with outdated advice and one-size-fits-all rehab.
We’re treating moms like athletes—because pregnancy, birth, and recovery demand nothing less.

💥 Want to run again? Lift again? Feel strong again?
Then stop accepting “don’t” as an answer.
You deserve a strategy that actually meets you where you are.  And this one might work for some of you.

💬 What’s the worst thing someone told you about prolapse? Join the conversation on Instagram.

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